Tall
trees billowing in the wind, vibrant sunrises and sunsets, tons of golf courses
and vineyards, and an endless supply of water. This is Long Island, New York
and my favorite place in United States. You could call it my home away from
home. About four years ago I was offered a job to work at a Golf Club in Southampton
of Long Island, New York and because I had a wild hair I went for it. Even
though it was only for six months of my life-it changed me and I’m forever
thankful that I went. Everyone needs that life changing moment in their 20’s
and Long Island was mine. It all started with the wine..
If I
hadn’t worked in Southampton I would not have discovered the excellence of
wine. The Northfork had many more Vineyards than the Southfork (where
Southampton is) but they sure know how to do wine just as well!
This is a picture of Long Island. The
North Fork is on the left and the South Fork is on the right. As you can see
there are only three Wineries on the South Fork.
But it wasn’t just the wine that
made these places memorable. I really enjoyed the Channing Daughter’s Winery
because of the sculpture garden. The main piece is an up-rooted tree that is
suspended upside down in the middle of the garden.
There is nothing like taking a
bottle of wine and sitting in the middle of this big open field of unique
sculptures. It’s so peaceful. In fact when one of my brother’s came to visit me
I took him there and while we wandered our separate ways in silence I came back
to find him napping on a tree. If that doesn’t speak of serenity I don’t know
what does.
Serenity.
However,
the art and wine was just one small piece of my experience. There was also
golf. When I first arrived I knew absolutely nothing about golf. All I knew is
that you could play either 9 or 18 holes and choose to take a cart of walk the
course. I had no idea that there was a science on how deep one should plant the
grass seeds so that when it came time to mow there would be more options to
make the course either a fast or slow play. Or, that the course had to be
manicured daily to keep the game interesting. I learned quickly that golf was
not just a sport but a business meeting and family gathering. I mostly worked
with the upper crust of society (each member had to pay a half million dollars
to even join the club) but I sure met a lot of interesting people. These men
and women are powerful business people who fight for every dime they’ve ever
made, but when it came to golf they were the most relaxed and polite people I
had ever met.
One of
the most interesting things about Southampton is that there were three clubs
within three miles of each other and most of the members belonged to at least
two, sometimes even all three of the clubs. If I had the money I think I would
do the same-these clubs are beyond beautiful and filled with history.
This is the back of the club I worked at. This
view shows the staircase that leads to the upstairs deck, bar, and dining room
along with the downstairs patio that overlooks the course.
This is a club that is literally right next
door. I had taken this picture from the back deck of the club that I worked at.
This club had been around for quite some time. It looks more like a gargantuan
house than a club where you would enjoy food and drinks.
The
whole experience was magical and healing all in one. I started off as a 20 year
old kid and returned as a 21 year old confident and happy adult. I learned how
to stand up for myself while still being supportive of the people around me. It’s
not just the golf, wine, sculptures, and never ending water that changed me,
but it was mostly the people. I was the youngest person who worked at the club
and I didn’t know a single soul when I started, but these people became not
only my friends but also my family.
Can you see why?
None of us live in
the same state or even the same part of the country, yet we still make time for
each other because those six short months changed us all.
I’m
lucky to have tons of relatives that live in New York state, so I’ve made
plenty of return visits since I left and every time is as great as the first
time. Sometimes traveling is to relax. Sometimes it’s to escape and sometimes
it’s to discover. Whatever the reason people find, I know mine is to find that
place that makes the “Cheer’s” theme song come true. I want to travel to a
place where, “everybody knows your name.”